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An Intentional Christmas: Simple, Christ-Centered Tips from Our Community

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The Christmas season has a way of bringing out both our deepest joy and our deepest exhaustion.
Some of us look forward to the lights, the recipes, the music, the shared memories and of course, the spiritual reflection of Emmanuel – God with us. Others walk into December carrying grief, stress or a pace that feels almost impossible to sustain.

Wherever you are on that spectrum this year, I want you to know this: you’re not alone.

One of my favorite things about the Scott Ink community is your wisdom, your generosity and your desire to help others live intentionally—with eyes fixed on Jesus. So I reached out and asked you to share your best Christmas tips: ways to simplify, ways to save time, and ways to stay rooted in Christ instead of swept away by the season.

Your responses were beautiful—practical, meaningful, and grounded in faith.

Today, I’m gathering them here so that together, we can move toward a Christmas that is less stressful, more peaceful, and more focused on what truly matters.

1. Simplifying Christmas: Give Yourself Permission to Do Less

One of the most freeing pieces of advice came from Vicky, an empty-nester and grandmother who has lived through many seasons of Christmas.

She reminded us:

“You do not have to carry your family traditions and your spouse’s. You don’t need to use all the decorations. Examine what you do – and give yourself permission to cut back.”

What wise, grace-filled advice.

For many of us, the pressure of nostalgia – combined with the pressure of Pinterest – keeps us doing far more than we need to. Christmas becomes a checklist instead of a celebration.

Here are a few simplification strategies gathered from your tips:

Simplify Your Traditions

  • Keep one meaningful ritual (an Advent wreath, lighting candles, a special reading) rather than trying to maintain everything.
  • Choose what matters most to your current season of life – not your childhood season or your newlywed season.

Simplify Your Decorating

  • Use fewer decorations and choose the ones that spark true joy.
  • My own go-to: one large poinsettia, cut into individual blooms and placed in small vases around the home.
    One plant = ten festive pops of Christmas red.

Simplify Your Schedule

  • Make a plan in early November and spread out the tasks that tend to overwhelm – decorating, shopping, meal planning.
  • Shop early to spread out both the cost and the emotional load.

Giving yourself space is not selfish. It’s spiritual stewardship. A friend recently shared with me that Sabbath is the original self-care that God intended for us.

2. Creating Joyful Moments That Become Lasting Memories

Louise shared so many delightful ideas for making the season more fun and meaningful – especially for families with kids and teens.

Plan Memory-Making Events

Think beyond gifts:

  • Christmas light outings
  • Food or craft fairs
  • Holiday concerts or plays
  • A Christmas movie marathon (make a calendar!)

These shared experiences often become the memories your kids talk about years from now.

Start or Refresh a Tradition

Some of your favorites included:

  • Baking Jesus a birthday cake together
  • A family decorating night (complete with finger foods)
  • A “Friendsmas” gathering for teens, complete with a hot chocolate bar and cozy movie night

Choose Wrapping That Makes Life Easier

  • Wrap each family member’s gifts in a different wrapping paper.
  • Keep wrapping supplies accessible so everyone can wrap gifts for each other. I use a picnic basket to corral all of my supplies from rolls to ribbons!

Sometimes the simplest systems create the most peace.

3. Giving with Purpose (Not Just Presents)

As Vicky shared, becoming a grandparent or entering the empty-nest phase often shifts how we think about “stuff.”

Her wisdom:

“My grandchildren are in no danger of having no toys or clothes.”

So instead of piling on items, she and her husband:

  • Opened college savings accounts for their grandkids
  • Gift a small present just to open
  • Bless their adult children with an annual post-Christmas Airbnb getaway, complete with meals provided

4. Keeping Christ at the Center

The heartbeat of this community is clear: we want Christmas to be spiritually rich, not spiritually rushed.

Here are some of your favorite Christ-centered practices:

Advent Devotionals

  • Preparing for Jesus by Walter Wangerin (Vicky’s recommendation)
  • Christianity Today’s annual Advent devotional
  • Slowly reading Matthew and Luke throughout the month
  • My choice this year: Everyday Prayers for Christmas by Stacey Thacker
  • And please join us in the Scott Ink Intentional Living Facebook Community as Julie Kay Harbour will be leading us through a daily advent journaling activity as we read through the gospel of Luke together.

And many of you mentioned enjoying last year’s ABCs of Christmas devotional by Ray Pritchard of Keep Believing Ministries.

Sharing the Gospel Through Hospitality

Tatyana offered a beautifully simple practice:

  • Deliver ready-made Christmas cards with Bible verses
  • Bring canned goods from your pantry
  • Visit your neighbors
  • Offer invitations to church
  • Share that you’re a Christian and available to help

Evangelism doesn’t have to be complicated. It begins with kindness at your front door.

5. Food & Hospitality Tips That Make Life Easier

Let’s be honest: sometimes the kitchen is the most stressful part of December.

Your tips were simple and smart:

Make-Ahead Meals

My personal favorite:

  • Lasagna—make it ahead, freeze it, or double the batch when feeding a crowd. This is our family’s favorite lasagna recipe that is easy, delicious and when doubled, can feed a crowd or gathering this holiday season.

A Simple, Festive Holiday Punch

Equal parts:

  • Hawaiian Fruit Punch
  • Sprite
    It’s easy, kid-friendly, bright red, and always gets compliments.

Host Without the Pressure

  • Set out finger foods during decorating
  • Let each person pick one holiday dish to be responsible for
  • Keep snacks and hot drinks available to make gatherings feel cozy, not formal

6. Sharing the Hope of Christ in a Hurried World

The holidays shine light on both joy and pain. Some of you are carrying loss, loneliness, or exhaustion. Some of you are carrying excitement, anticipation, and hope.

Wherever you are, I pray this collection of tips helps you slow down, breathe deeply, and remember—

Jesus came into a world much like ours: busy, broken, longing.
His presence is the gift.

As you plan and prepare, may the Prince of Peace fill your home, your calendar and your heart.

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